When filing for divorce in New York, there are a number of important considerations you must make. However, when you have children, there are even more matters you must discuss with your spouse to ensure that their best interests are met. As such, one important element you must consider is their religious upbringing. This can be a point of contention in many divorces, so it’s necessary to understand how this can be addressed. The following blog explores what you should know about these complex issues, including whether or not you can address religion in your custody plan and the importance of working with a Long Island child custody lawyer to help you navigate these difficult times.
What Is Typically Included in Divorce Decrees?
When a couple files for divorce, it will include the full terms and conditions agreed upon by the couple or issued by the court. This typically includes matters related to alimony, property division, and if the couple shares children, child custody and support.
It’s necessary to understand that the matters determined in a divorce decree are legally binding. As such, failure to comply can result in considerable issues, including wage garnishment for non-payment of support and even a contempt of court charge. As such, it’s critical to ensure that you understand the matters included in the decree so you can remain in compliance.
Can I Include Matters About Religious Upbringing in the Plan?
As mentioned, the courts will always prioritize the best interests of the child. As such, matters related to religion can be included in custody matters. You should also note that legal custody can play a considerable role in how a child’s religion is determined. For example, if one parent has sole legal custody, they will likely have the ability to make decisions regarding religion for the child. However, if the couple shares legal custody, they must work out an agreement.
In most instances, you’ll find that the court can consider each parent’s religious beliefs to create a fair and respectful plan to ensure that the child is able to experience and learn about the beliefs of each parent. This is because the court will do everything in its power to support an agreement in which the child is exposed to the religious beliefs of each parent, so long as it is best for the child.
As such, you and your spouse may be able to work out an agreement regarding the religious upbringing of your child. This can include both parents working together to explore the different customs, practices, and teachings of their religion while helping support the child as they learn about the other. The agreement can also include any limitations agreed upon by the parents to ensure fairness.
It’s important to understand that you should always connect with an experienced attorney when handling any legal matters related to religion. At the Law Offices of Jay D. Raxenberg, our dedicated legal team can help you navigate these complex matters. When you need help, do not hesitate to contact our firm today to learn how we can fight for you and yoru family.


